Decision which changes life

[Susu80]

Have you made a decision which has changed your life completly ?
I mean a situation where you have no choice....there is A or B....

Everybody make decisions every day like "coffee" or "tea", but to make a decision like going out the country alone is somthing different.

My situation: I am doing a intership in Dubai since August. At the same time I am applying for a job in Germany. The intership was (at the beginning) just to make experience and to see Dubai. Now I had a interview in Germany in a very big company and near my home, which was always a dream (before the intership).
On the other hand I am working with very nice people in a big company in Dubai....and Dubai is soooo nice.....sun....ocean.....
So both comanys are interested to give me a job.

But I don't know what to do :(

I have my family and friends in Germany, but it is ok for me to live far away from them. Then I have a car and a flat in Germany. In Dubai I met very nice people, I can call them friends now. Living costs are less than in Germany and every day the sun shines.

Which points are now important to make a decision ???

I am afraid to miss something if I don't stay in Dubai. And I am afraid to make the wrong decision. Maybe living in Dubai is not so nice as it seems. If I don't take the job here in Germany I loose security (they have better insurance).
I don't know.....life sucks

[Dianbo]

If I were you, I would stay in Dubai.

Much more opportunities there, its growing and Im sure you could get promotion more easily than in Germany. You can also save more money because life is cheap there, and you can use this money once you get back in Germany :)

How old are you? If you're young, i'm sure this opportunity won't come again in your life, you're now settled in Dubai and even if you stay, you can always come back.

[arcticM]

well first of all, if you think life sucks then it will suck..be more positive! you have 2 great options, some ppl don't have even 1! so see? life isn't that bad..
My advice forget all of what you said here (pros/cons) and just think what would make you happier! as simple as that, stop complicating things!! either way it sounds like you'll win something good.
Good luck!;)

[Jats]

Be still and know your heart.

All the answers to your life's questions are in your heart (that is in your mind). If you are able to quiet the chatter within your mind, you can hear the answers loud and clear. That is why meditation is essential. Go somewhere quiet, go back to nature......
Then all you need to do is to follow your heart. Go where it tells you to---not why someone else tells you to.

We should a be living our own lives according to our own wishes, as we are all made with a huge amount of intelligence. Don't let the world corrupt that for you.

By asking someone else what to do...we may be living someone else's dream......LIVE YOUR OWN. :D

[itrack4u]

hmmm, in today's economy it can't suck to have two jobs to pick from:rolleyes:

[danca232]

Listen To Your Heart And You Will Know What To Do !!! :)