Fancying married women....

[Kaa Kaa]

Hi Everyone,

Im new here and thought Id start with a bang and open my own new thread!!

Im a married mom of 2 wonderful kids, Im happily married, but Im bi, my hubby knows that I am, and quite honestly - loves it!
Now, my little problem is that I really fancy my daughters friends mom, she is the same age as me, but she is married also, I told my husband that I had no chance with this woman, but his reply back to me was..."well, your married and your bi...... who says she isn't too" so how do I go about this? do I leave well alone and stop myself from complete and utter embarrassment, or do I be subtle? Help!!

love the forum btw, its great, and wish I had found it earlier.

[moon1]

Your coming to this forum to ask how you can either cheat on your husband or have some sort of open 3 way marriage? With your daughters friends mother? And you want her to cheat on her husband with you? Approaching your daughters friends mother and asking her to cheat on her husband with you is not "embarrasing" for you...it's immoral and very wierd.

Your married... get unmarried and don't come here to talk about your wierd cheating 3way open marriage thingy. Go to the proper sex talk forum somewhere. I'm not sure that I even believe you and you are not some sort of stirrer.

Other than that...welcome here to talk about Ellen.

[leeann]

I agree with moon, this is not the site to talk about cheating on ones partners even if thet are aware of it or not. Grow up and talk about Ellen and Portia and leave your other issues to another site or professional.

[treiner]

@moon1...why don't you leave the decision about what is an appropriate post to the mods? And we talk about things other than E & P here. I think Viz has told you this before!

@ Kaa Kaa...welcome to the site. You are welcome here. Perhaps instead of starting a new thread, you might have posted this in confessions? Just a suggestion.

I have a problem with people judging others. Who is to say whether an open marriage is immoral, and gay marriage is not! Is it really cheating if her husband knows about it, and approves? Just a question. As for myself, I do not approve of cheating, if that is what is really going on.

[moon1]

She is not "confessing"....she is asking our advice how to get another married woman to cheat on her husband.

And both her and the other womans children will be right in the centre of everything, since both their daughters are friends.

This is not nice and this is a nice site...end of story.

But maybe she could have posted in confessions and left off the "tell me how to get my daughters friends mother to cheat on her husband with me" question.

I do wonder if she is really who she says she is. Something just doesn't ring true.

[treiner]

moon1. My point is...you dont have the right to berate someone about what belongs on this site. Your can state your opinion, but please remember this is not your site. That right belongs to viz and the mods, ok?

[arcticM]

Hi Everyone,

Im new here and thought Id start with a bang and open my own new thread!!

I just love when new members start with a bang...NOT!:cool:
I hope that the reason you registered is to be a part of our lovely ellen-forum and not only to get a marriage advice..I'm sure there's a better place for that and not here..
a nice bang would be to post here first---> http://ellen.4thdimension.info/forum/showthread.php?t=6854

[jlilest]

I'm inclined to think this isn't really a good place for this sort of question. I am going to wait on input from the other moderators and/or vizitor before doing anything about this thread.

If all parties involved know what is going on, including the other woman's husband, and are OK with it, then that is probably OK for them. If you haven't actually done anything before, I wouldn't suggest taking your husband's attitude at face value. It might seem OK while it is a fantasy, it might not be OK once it becomes a reality or near reality.

Personally I don't get the point of an open relationship. It seems like an invitation to disaster to me.

If you have children, you should not do something that you wouldn't want them to do in a relationship. One way or another, they will find out what happens, at least to some extent.

[Jats]

PENGUINS!!!! :D:D:D

(Ellen once said: Penguins are monogamous and they all look exactly alike. Not like one is likely to find another better looking one):d_biglaugh::d_biglaugh::d_biglaugh:

[arcticM]

PENGUINS!!!! :D:D:D

(Ellen once said: Penguins are monogamous and they all look exactly alike. Not like one is likely to find another better looking one):d_biglaugh::d_biglaugh::d_biglaugh:
Are you sugessting we all start dating penguins?:dia_tongue:...well they are cute in a creepy kinda way:dia_o_o:

[Jats]

Are you sugessting we all start dating penguins?:dia_tongue:...well they are cute in a creepy kinda way:dia_o_o:

If you can convinced a Penguin to agree to go on a date with you---Certainly, WHY NOT?? :D

They are so cute even if one sees it as creepy---really depends on one's perception? :eek:

Learn from nature--- these animals can teach us so much. Why complicate life when nature and the universe already provide everything (including answers to all life's questions) that we need.

[vizitor]

moon1. My point is...you dont have the right to berate someone about what belongs on this site. Your can state your opinion, but please remember this is not your site. That right belongs to viz and the mods, ok?

I'm inclined to think this isn't really a good place for this sort of question. I am going to wait on input from the other moderators and/or vizitor before doing anything about this thread...

Okay this topic is not fair but I do NOT think we should prohibit this topic. Okay, it's not a good topic but we can't prohibit every topic we don't like ;) (we already had this discussion some times before ;)). I would suggest, everybody who don't want to read about things she/he don't like, simply do not read the concerned thread :cool:.

Don't get me wrong, I also do not like this topic but I can't prohibit everthing I don't like. Our world is (mostly) free (thanks to god) and this is good :D!

PS: Welcome "Kaa Kaa"!