portia and ellen true...

[cheesedoodle]

this is on people magazine..

http://people.aol.com/people/articles/0,19736,1007643,00.html

[Kayleigh]

I'm not subscribed what happened!

All i got was:

Just weeks after Ellen DeGeneres's girlfriend of four years, photographer Alexandra Hedison, moved out of the couple's Hollywood Hills home, the talk show maven has a new love interest: Arrested Development star Portia de Rossi, a source tells PEOPLE.

De Rossi, 31, also recently became single after splitting with her girlfriend of three years, singer-songwriter Francesca Gregorini, 31, who is the stepdaughter of former Beatle Ringo Starr.

Although DeGeneres, 46, and de Rossi, who...Get instant access to the rest of this article and all of PEOPLE.com when you subscribe to PEOPLE magazine today.


Who... what? What happened? (tut) What a tease. lol

[cheesedoodle]

i know i'm not subscribed either... i really wanna know what the rest says!!! the reason i think its true now is cause people doesnt lie... unless the part thats cut off says its not confirmed and people wants to have it under their belt as well if it is in fact true... anyone have a subscription and care to share the info?!?!?!

[puppdog88]

ewww... they don't look good together AT ALL! I hope this isn't true...

[auggiesociety]

AOL can be a pain in the rear-end sometimes...but it has it perks....it gets me into People.com....so here it is, not much more than the preview though:

Just weeks after Ellen DeGeneres's girlfriend of four years, photographer Alexandra Hedison, moved out of the couple's Hollywood Hills home, the talk show maven has a new love interest: Arrested Development star Portia de Rossi, a source tells PEOPLE.

De Rossi, 31, also recently became single after splitting with her girlfriend of three years, singer-songwriter Francesca Gregorini, 31, who is the stepdaughter of former Beatle Ringo Starr.

Although DeGeneres, 46, and de Rossi, who was once featured on Ally McBeal, have been acquainted for some time, their romance came to light at the VH1 Big in '04 awards ceremony in Los Angeles on Dec. 1.

An onlooker reports, "Ellen and Portia seemed totally into each other. Their body language was intense." A spokesman for de Rossi wouldn't discuss her personal life. DeGeneres's rep refused to comment.

DeGeneres and Hedison, 35, met through mutual friends in 2000.

[hidden]

ewww... they don't look good together AT ALL! I hope this isn't true...
thats cuz de rossi is kinda freaky. ellen + freeky = yuckers

[thetadcat]

Alex was her world when the chips were down but now that she has so much success and good fortune she dumps her and goes for another version of Anne Heche.

Some people just don't know something good when they have it. If this is a midlife crisis as one report stated then she's going to get a very rude awakening.

Regardless, even if she comes to her senses today the damage is done and her relationship with Alex will never be so solid and safe again.

I really feel bad for Alex!

[mom_of_12]

Soooo...it's not just me who thinks that Portia's looks are a tad unusual? She keeps giving off this sleaze thing & I can't imagine how Ellen could be attracted to that, but then again, I couldn't understand Francesca's attraction, either. Maybe she has a good personality??? I don't know, I'm simply grasping @ straws here.

I could well be wrong, but just don't see how those two could last as an item.

How long does anyone give it???

[baby5805]

i don't give portia and ellen long at all. maybe a week or two. ellen and alex will be back together in a month or two. (i don't think its wishful thinking either). you just don't erase 4 yrs. sorry i went off on a tangent.

[cheesedoodle]

i dont think that ellen and portia are together... i think that ellen and alex were having problems, alex moved out so they could have some space, ellen and portia hooked up (during this whole "break" (probably under the influence of alcohol)), ellen felt bad and told alex, and they decided that they should go through with the break up... i really dont think that ellen left alex for portia... and if they are together, (which like i said before, i'm pretty sure they're not) it wont last

[thetadcat]

Did anyone notice that she wore her ring on her talk show until the news broke about the separation. It was absent on her finger as of a couple of days ago. Sounds like her publicity people have been at work with this one.

I hope this is just a short separation, but the ring thing bugs me.

[mom_of_12]

Alex was her world when the chips were down but now that she has so much success and good fortune she dumps her and goes for another version of Anne Heche.

Some people just don't know something good when they have it. If this is a midlife crisis as one report stated then she's going to get a very rude awakening.

Regardless, even if she comes to her senses today the damage is done and her relationship with Alex will never be so solid and safe again.

I really feel bad for Alex!

The part about not knowing what you have until it's gone is totally true. We'll always have that shortcoming, or so it seems. There is the human tendency to take core benefits for granted, but still, we'll likely never know the root cause of their own separation. It could be mid-life crisis, it could be abuse (of either the emotional or physical side of a person, or of a substance), it could be neglect...we could guess until doomsday & still not know the truth. Something major happened & I just hope that they could both work through it to their mutual benefit, regardless of the eventual outcome (meaning who ends up where, as long as they are both whole @ the end).

[thetadcat]

Alex was her world when the chips were down but now that she has so much success and good fortune she dumps her and goes for another version of Anne Heche.

Some people just don't know something good when they have it. If this is a midlife crisis as one report stated then she's going to get a very rude awakening.

Regardless, even if she comes to her senses today the damage is done and her relationship with Alex will never be so solid and safe again.

I really feel bad for Alex!

The part about not knowing what you have until it's gone is totally true. We'll always have that shortcoming, or so it seems. There is the human tendency to take core benefits for granted, but still, we'll likely never know the root cause of their own separation. It could be mid-life crisis, it could be abuse (of either the emotional or physical side of a person, or of a substance), it could be neglect...we could guess until doomsday & still not know the truth. Something major happened & I just hope that they could both work through it to their mutual benefit, regardless of the eventual outcome (meaning who ends up where, as long as they are both whole @ the end).



I agree with you. Don't get me wrong I'm a fan of Ellen DeGeneres but like the rest of you I feel very sad that they parted. It's the timing of it is all plus coming off the Dateline interview, she could have left talking about Alex out it and kept to her privacy issue. But to talk about how happy they are and then to initiate the breakup. I think that what blows so many people away. But you're right we can debate this until the end of time and it won't matter, but it helps to vent. Normally I don't care what happens in celebrities lives but this one hit a nerve with me so I know I'm putting some personal feelings into this post.

[forellen]

Hey...how are you so sure that Ellen initiated the breakup? Their statement did not indicate that...and we have no other way of knowing! For all we know...maybe Alex is the one who wanted this...especially if she wants the kid and Ellen doesn't...whaddya think?

[thetadcat]

Hey...how are you so sure that Ellen initiated the breakup? Their statement did not indicate that...and we have no other way of knowing! For all we know...maybe Alex is the one who wanted this...especially if she wants the kid and Ellen doesn't...whaddya think?

There's several articles out there stating that Ellen initiated the breakup. They are quotes from people that supposedly know her. Yes, this could be what Alex wants, maybe the interview and the fact she was against having kids was the last straw. Who knows! If you want to locate these articles just do a google search for "Ellen DeGeneres" and they should pull up on top of the screen. Read them and give me your opinion.

[bladesedge]

The 'PlanetOut' website also has an article on this. Was the headline on their latest newsletter I got this morning. According to the article, its all rumours at the moment, as Ellen's people (or as she puts it, her 'posse') are refusing to comment.

[forellen]

Hey...how are you so sure that Ellen initiated the breakup? Their statement did not indicate that...and we have no other way of knowing! For all we know...maybe Alex is the one who wanted this...especially if she wants the kid and Ellen doesn't...whaddya think?

There's several articles out there stating that Ellen initiated the breakup. They are quotes from people that supposedly know her. Yes, this could be what Alex wants, maybe the interview and the fact she was against having kids was the last straw. Who knows! If you want to locate these articles just do a google search for "Ellen DeGeneres" and they should pull up on top of the screen. Read them and give me your opinion.

Hmmm...well I went through the articles and they do seem to indicate that Ellen is the one who broke up. But, Ellen is the high profile one in this situation...how come none of the articles speak about Alex and what she's doing etc...? They keep talking about the 'mid life crisis' with a younger gal...well,Alex is not too much older than Portia..you know what I mean? She's a young, hot one too! It doesn't make too much sense to me...They have been in a 4 year relationship....the only thing that makes me feel that there could be some truth to the Portia thing is the fact that Ellen admits to it being a sudden, unexpected turn of events. What could have happened so suddenly...and unpredictably?? Cheating???? :cry:

[forellen]

Or maybe it really isn't so sudden as they're making it to be coz Alex did move out over a month ago...so they have probably been dealing with issues long before that....they just officially called it off with taking off the rings etc...and the media is builing up that Portia thing in retrospect.....how come there was no news about the VH1 hookup till the news of the breakup came out 10 days later???

[thetadcat]

I've read the Advocate statement, news reports, People Magazine's report and the NY Post.

Regardless, it sounds like they have ended their relationship but plan to remain friends and be supportive of each other. I certainly hope this much is true, anyway.

Now I'm doubting my own thoughts. I think at this point I'm going to sit back and just see what pops up. If Ellen is seeing anyone new it will be splashed all over the pages of Us Magazine soon enough. Her pix is in there one way or another almost every week.

I think it's just that we all enjoyed their success, personalities, attractiveness, and happiness so much that it hurts to see it end. I know that I for one saw their relationship as a model to strive towards - to have that dashed so suddenly is hard.

They both seem to be such wonderful people and everyone wants a happy story and a dream to love.

We are all feeling the loss, almost like a death, but in time we can only be supportive as fans and wish them the best. All the talking, wishing and hoping will not change anything. We just have to wait and see what happens.

And for my last wishful thought - maybe a break will be what they both need. If it's over a baby, then Ellen will know soon what matters most, her total freedom or Alex. If it's over another girl, then if their love runs really deep then in time they will find their way back to each other.

Well, enough from me - nothing I say or do will change a thing, but talking about it did help. Geez, if we all feel this bad just think how Alex and Ellen feel!!!!

[forellen]

' Sit back and see what pops up' !...seems like a great idea to me!! I wish Ellen gets a glimpse of this website sometime...she sure will be amused to see all the brain storming that's going on here!! :)

[EllenRules]

I'm going to sit back and watch. Nobody know the truth but Ellen,Alex and Portia. They is so mush BS you don't know what to believe these days.Time will tell.

[chick2]

more from e online.....

Wifestyles of the Rich and Famous: Who says heteros have cornered the market on tacky breakup behavior? Certainly not the speed-dumped exes of Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi, according to the National Enquirer. The yack-show jokester and the Arrested Development star reportedly hooked up at the taping of the VH1 Big in '04 Awards with a "flirtfest" that turned into an hour-long makeout session in Portia's, um, Porsche. Talk about a smooth ride! But soon things got bumpy--for the stars' live-in loves! Ellen's photographer g-f of four years, Alexandra Hedison, and Portia's partner of three years, Francesca Gregorini (stepdaughter of Beatle Ringo Starr), each got the hottie-to-nottie heave-ho within days. An Enquirer source says a "grieving Alex was infuriated when she called Ellen a few days later...and was given the brush-off. Ellen had the gall to tell Alex, 'Now's not a good time for me--Portia's here.' " No surprise, then, that Alex moved from Ellen's guesthouse to a hotel--and then over to her lawyer's office to get the galimony ball rolling. Sounds like there'll be plenty of time to talk later...

[cheesedoodle]

haha that sounds like such b.s.

[Sobe]

Man, that whole thing sounds wrong. Nobody can belive that and plus they got the news from the National Enquirer. The same paper I think that said that Martha Stewart was keeping an alien lover in her basement. :?

[gubblebumm]

Man, that whole thing sounds wrong. Nobody can belive that and plus they got the news from the National Enquirer. The same paper I think that said that Martha Stewart was keeping an alien lover in her basement. :?

Lmao That's hilarious. An alien lover...well...I guess Portia kind of falls under that same category now doesn't she? I still won't believe it. The media can take the simplest little thing like seeing Ellen and portia talking together the party, and suddenly they are making out in the back of a limo and living together. I believe Ellen and Alex broke up, as sad as that is, but I will not believe Ellen and Portia are together, until I hear a statement from them, or one of their reps who, at this point, still refuse to comment.

[mom_of_12]

I believe Ellen and Alex broke up, as sad as that is, but I will not believe Ellen and Portia are together, until I hear a statement from them, or one of their reps who, at this point, still refuse to comment.

I completely understand your point, believe me. Still, there's one question that bothers me: If this hook up was total BS, wouldn't Ellen's & Portia's reps be PDQ about issuing a statement of denial? It simply seems that everyone wishes to lay low for a while until the heat of these - I'm sorry - seemingly dodgy acts blows over. Granted, some facts may've been blown completely out of proportion (it is the US media we're talking about, LOL), but I think that there may be a grain of truth there, no matter how serious or fleeting.

[Lisette]

I have spent a good deal of time today reading about everyones thoughts about Ellen's breakup and its made me very sad for her and for Portia . Alex and Francesca.
Being a celebrity or involved with one really sucks. Imagine your last relationship and the indecision/pain/fear/feelings you felt about it. You were maybe not certain about staying together or breaking up...you loved the person, they had become your best friend and more but you could no longer see yourself going thru life in the relationship..but you just can't leave cuz its not just hurting your friend but the world is gonna judge you, the media is gonna riducule you, the gay community is gonna blame you...and all because you are making a decision, not lightly (tho it may seem to outsiders) to do what you feel is best for you in your life. Imagine that you in the midst of struggling with all of these feelings do the horrible thing of falling for someone else. Now you are viewed as a horrible cheater, you have betrayed everyone's feelings about your relationship, how could you do that to your fans. the gay community, you are suppose to be responsible, you are not suppose to go by your feelings. To make this worse, you fall for a woman who has never ever come out, she has lived her life quietly, chased by tabloids but never sat down and told the world that she loved another woman. Imagine also that she is not what the media holds as your typical lesbian, she dresses up, she wears* Horrors* makeup. she likes that stuff and tho' she has a job and a career of her own and has since forever you know they will say she is going with you to further that career that has been going on since she was a teen, quietly like most of her life and her love. You know they will say she can't care for you, she is younger, different from what you have had in the past, she just isn't what they want to see you with, how could you like her! Painful to be told you aren't good enough to be loved just for you by the same fans who profess to adore you. They will say she is *ugly*, they will write about you both, stand in front of your home, chase you to work every morning, dying to get that first picture of you two together! They will analyze it to death in the press and on your own website, they will bemoan your betrayal of THEIR view of YOUR life and the obvious fact that you dare to think you can live and love as you wish without interference from them.
They liked you better with Alex, they want you with Alex, they demand you go back to Alex and get over this silly thing. You owe it to them.
They tell you, she can't be right for you. Afterall they know you better than you can ever know yourself. They read about you in that press that is chasing you, they watch you dance on your show, they should know.
It sucks to be a celebrity or be involved with one. It also sucks to be a friend to one and to love her and want the best for her and watch her go thru the pain of a public breakup. All of the anger directed at Ellen and Portia is so ugly and so hard for me to understand. I keep going back to my last breakup and the agony of it. I am blessed that I am a nobody and could cry alone. I wish for Ellen, Alex, Portia and Francesa that same ability to cry alone, under their covers, eating bad food and watching bad tv. I wish they all could do that and then walk out their respective doors and leave it, like I did, until I was ready to go back to it.
I know its wistful thinking on my part that they could handle their lives in private, too late for that but I do wish and maybe this could happen here please that you give them a break from the anger and judgement that you remember your last breakup, your last sudden relationship, your last someone leaving....and be kinder to all 4 women
Lisette.

[hidden]

i heard on the radio that alex was sueing ellen for something to do with emotional skock? i dont know what it was exactly, anyone else hear this?
:?: :?: :?:

[rockin2evanescence]

awww man, it just doesn't seem right at all! When Ellen was with Alex, in their pics together it just fit and it to me it gave me the "awww" feeling and like "why can't I have that?" and then seeing her w/ Portia it's like "Augh!" but then again like someone else said, should we trust this info? The media is crazy for stories and they'll even morph the truth into something so uncalled for. I guess waiting for statements from them is the best thing :?

[SexyScully]

awww man, it just doesn't seem right at all! When Ellen was with Alex, in their pics together it just fit and it to me it gave me the "awww" feeling and like "why can't I have that?" and then seeing her w/ Portia it's like "Augh!" but then again like someone else said, should we trust this info? The media is crazy for stories and they'll even morph the truth into something so uncalled for. I guess waiting for statements from them is the best thing :?

That's what i said. They looked so cute together! It's like peas and carrots..lol :lol:
To me Portia is not hot at all. Alex and Ellen were so beautiful together. :cry:

[rockin2evanescence]

awww man, it just doesn't seem right at all! When Ellen was with Alex, in their pics together it just fit and it to me it gave me the "awww" feeling and like "why can't I have that?" and then seeing her w/ Portia it's like "Augh!" but then again like someone else said, should we trust this info? The media is crazy for stories and they'll even morph the truth into something so uncalled for. I guess waiting for statements from them is the best thing :?

That's what i said. They looked so cute together! It's like peas and carrots..lol :lol:
To me Portia is not hot at all. Alex and Ellen were so beautiful together. :cry:

Yeah, they were beautiful together :( *sigh* jus hope that everyone finds their happiness.

[ellenstar]

Personally I don't see this relationship with Portia lasting. There is something about Portia I can't put my finger on, ALSO if it is true that she made a play for Ellen whilst in her own long term relationship, then who is to say that she won't do the same to Ellen.

I thought Ellen and Alex had finally found a nice stable relationship and were both happy, but unfortunately things like this happen in life and if this is the way Ellen wishes to go, who are we to complain. It is her life. Ellen and Alex looked good together and happy but only they know what went on within their four walls.

I just hope this doesn't affect her career on the TEDS and she doesn't have to go through what she went through when she came 'out' in 1997. She is a damned good entertainer and I would not like to see her show go off the air because of it.

I would add that I 'feel for Alex right now, as I have been there myself'.

[mom_of_12]

Personally I don't see this relationship with Portia lasting. There is something about Portia I can't put my finger on, ALSO if it is true that she made a play for Ellen whilst in her own long term relationship, then who is to say that she won't do the same to Ellen.


You feel it, too? Portia just seems looks so...sleazy...or maybe, sneaky. Something about that woman just puts me off, but like you, I just can't put my finger on what it is.

[ellenstar]

Glad you see it too Mom of 12. Thought I might be the only one on here thinking that. There is something about Portia. Just hope Ellen hasn't made a mistake here.

[EllenRules]

I bet all my money the Ellen and Portia dont last long. I was surfing the web and got this quote.

"Ellen will come to her senses and dump Portia to go back to Alexandra in the near future," said one

I hope so. For Ellen and Alex sake. They look to good together. Portia looks like a hooker. She just don't look right for Ellen. Do you see it to?

[MustangGurlie]

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i heard on the radio that alex was sueing ellen for something to do with emotional skock? i dont know what it was exactly, anyone else hear this?

I heard it to but I dont remember where it was or exactly what they said. I dont think its true.

[ellenstar]

This weeks enquirer says that Alex is talking to lawyers about palimony due to the fact that she gave up her career to be Ellen's full time girlfriend. They reckon could be the biggest lawsuit in Hollywood if she goes ahead with it. Could cause Ellen a lot of embarrassment, just hope it does not affect her career and her show like it did in 1997.

Don't think this will last between Ellen and Portia anyhow....!!!!

[FreezetAG]

Hey...I've been keeping up with the Ellen and Alex breakup thanks to you guys...but anyways, I was thinking...if Ellen and Portia were really living together, don't you think the press would have some pictures of them together already? And I agree, Portia looks very sketchy...sounds like she's only after Ellen for publicity...boo!

[comedylover]

i heard about all this on some radio station up here. they were talking about how portia tends to hook up with the popular celebs for her own benefit. they kept saying about how they hoped that ellen didnt make a mistake and have the relationship end up like the one with her and anne.

i hope all this crap about ellen and portia is just bull. but i guess we'll find out when those people's choice awards come around and we see ellen on the red carpet. if shes with portia, then its true.. but i highly doubt it. :?

EDIT: i also think somethings up with portia. i dont know, when i look at her, something doesnt feel right.. i just cant figure out what it is. her and ellens picture together doesnt sit well with me for some reason.

[Lisette]

i heard about all this on some radio station up here. they were talking about how portia tends to hook up with the popular celebs for her own benefit. they kept saying about how they hoped that ellen didnt make a mistake and have the relationship end up like the one with her and anne.

i hope all this crap about ellen and portia is just bull. but i guess we'll find out when those people's choice awards come around and we see ellen on the red carpet. if shes with portia, then its true.. but i highly doubt it. :?

EDIT: i also think somethings up with portia. i dont know, when i look at her, something doesnt feel right.. i just cant figure out what it is. her and ellens picture together doesnt sit well with me for some reason.


Portia has never ever *hooked up* with a celebrity. Ever. In fact quite a few of you here didn't know who she was...so she doesn't seem to be a publicity seeking type. She has been in a relationship with someone all very quietly. Oh as for that picture of Portia and Ellen, at the awards, the reason it *looks odd* is it was photoshopped. Makes it easier for the photographer, the gossip rags and the curious if it appears like they were together there.
The stations , tv and radio are just repeating and enlarging the article that was on Page 6, making it more interesting to you by embellishing. A shame so many are falling for it.
Lisette.

[AmiMarjo]

heya all im new 2 this but i think that it probly has sumthing 2 do with havin kids and 1 simply dusnt want them and the other does. we dont know all the ins and outs to it really which sucks abit because alex and ellen were a gorgeous couple and great together. ellen n porsha(is that her name lol) dont go wel together but i suppose you cant help how you feel and maybe porsha is a really nice lady...minus looks. aslong as ellens happy and suceeding in life then all is good but i stil think her and alex should hook up again.

[Devon]

I loved Alex & Ellen together --- they made such a cute couple! I'm not getting that same vibe from Portia (she seems too "plastic" to me). But as long as Ellen is happy, I guess I can live with it. LOL

[Steph81]

They look AMAZING together! Ellen's just the BEST! and Portia's HOT!!!

They look great... No one can deny! :cool:

[Sapphire]

I don't give their relationship long at all!! Anyway, just because they are pictured together at some Hollywood events doesn't mean they are "hot-n-heavy" (At least I hope not! :mad: ) I have seen Ellen pictured in magazines with Portia and I hope to seel a lot more WITHOUT Portia!![/quote]

[lulu55]

I too love Ellen and Portia together. I hope they last. :D

[emele08]

Hey all! I just became a member here and I love this website! Ellen is such a great person and I love her! She is great!
Anyway...I was also sad and dissapointed of the news of her and Alex splitting, because I thought they were made for eachother, they fit so well.
But, also I think if I was Alex...would she even want Ellen back, if by some chance they did get back together? I mean for me, I would feel like if you truly loved me, you would't have left in the first place. I hope Alex realizes that she(herself) is an incredible person, and that Ellen made a mistake by letting her go. Just a couple opinions.
I love reading the posts, everyone! Keep up the great entertainment!

[Sapphire]

I too love Ellen and Portia together. I hope they last.

If you're talking to me, I meant to say "I see pics of Ellen without Portia and I HOPE to see a lot more WITHOUT Portia!! I don't like them together at all and never will!!

Anyone else think that Portia has weird eyebrows???

[lulu55]

If you're talking to me, I meant to say "I see pics of Ellen without Portia and I HOPE to see a lot more WITHOUT Portia!! I don't like them together at all and never will!!

I was just saying that I like Ellen and Portia together, I didn't write anything towards you or mean anything like that at all. I read what you wrote and I understood, and I wrote my opinion.

[zsuzsu]

[/quote]If you're talking to me, I meant to say "I see pics of Ellen without Portia and I HOPE to see a lot more WITHOUT Portia!! I don't like them together at all and never will!!

Anyone else think that Portia has weird eyebrows???[/quote]

I am agreeing with you on the photo business, but I don't want to start anything up on this thread about hating the big "P" because people get INSANELY out of control and freak out and then everyone get's pissed off and then there's name calling, then people are getting banned then its just a vicious cycle! GRRRRR!!

But in my opinion, the only photo I want to see are of Ellen... and possibly of her shoes... I love her shoes :)

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/zsuzsu/Ellens-shoes.gif

[lulu55]

She does have the coolest shoes! :thumbsup:

[luvnellen88]

Dear Goddess of Love what is going on ? I understand the shock in everyone finding out about the break up with El De and Alex-trust me I was like 8O . But do we know for sure that it was El De that broke up with Alex ? I mean what if they decided for some crazy moment that they wanted different something in life( what ever it could be) and El De told Alex she didn't have to move out if she didn't want to or take your time finding out what you want out of this and Alex decided to move. And if so what if El De was hurting with the notion that her beloved Alex wanted out of the relationship and turned to partying as a medicinal method of coping. And along came Portia. And here and now is helping El De cope with the loss and emptyness she has inside . I mean what if :? . Can't we just continue to love and support El De for who she is? A beautiful, funny and independent force to be loved by alll who are open to differences?

[zsuzsu]

Dear Goddess of Love what is going on ? I understand the shock in everyone finding out about the break up with El De and Alex-trust me I was like 8O . But do we know for sure that it was El De that broke up with Alex ? I mean what if they decided for some crazy moment that they wanted different something in life( what ever it could be) and El De told Alex she didn't have to move out if she didn't want to or take your time finding out what you want out of this and Alex decided to move. And if so what if El De was hurting with the notion that her beloved Alex wanted out of the relationship and turned to partying as a medicinal method of coping. And along came Portia. And here and now is helping El De cope with the loss and emptyness she has inside . I mean what if :? . Can't we just continue to love and support El De for who she is? A beautiful, funny and independent force to be loved by alll who are open to differences?

See, here we go... AGAIN!

I love and support Ellen in everything she does, I just don't like her girlfriend (for the 100th time). How do you know the stuff you just posted is true? I don't believe a word of it.

So anyway, did you all vote for a subject to be discussed in Friday's monologue on her website? I did... I want her to talk about pirates :)

GO VOTE and vote for pirates... I want to see what she can come up with LOL!!!

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/zsuzsu/Ellens-shoes.gif

[Sapphire]

The yack-show jokester and the Arrested Development star reportedly hooked up at the taping of the VH1 Big in '04 Awards with a "flirtfest" that turned into an hour-long makeout session in Portia's, um, Porsche. Talk about a smooth ride!

Gosh, what I wouldn't do for an hour-long makeout session with Ellen!! 8)

[luvnellen88]

See, here we go... AGAIN!

I love and support Ellen in everything she does, I just don't like her girlfriend (for the 100th time). How do you know the stuff you just posted is true? I don't believe a word of it.

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OK now I never said anyone has to like her girlfriend! I just think that for so many people claiming that they love Ellen -she seems to have nothing but negativity being sent her way. And I did say "WHAT IF " like in a imagine that /could it be ? That's it.

[lulu55]

*komba ya...........*

sings

[kittykatscanner]

Stop, Stop, Stop!


We've been here and already done this.

You're right Zsuzu, she does have cool shoes, but I like her watches. (she has sexy hands!) Woohoo!

[zsuzsu]

Yeah she does have cool watches. I just love her style... especially when she's NOT on the show... just in blue jeans and a cool tshirt! BUT, when she goes to award shows, those kick ass suits make her look sooo coooll!!! Well, as I think about it now, she looks good in ANYTHING ROFL.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/zsuzsu/Ellens-shoes.gif

[eve22]

she does look good in everything... her style is too cool... and so is she
and her hands are so so nice

[wotuka]

I agree we don't know for sure if it was Ellen who dumped Alex but the fact that at the Grammys Ellen and Portia did not pose for even one photo with her best friend Melissa Etheridge, makes me wonder if Ellen is the guilty party and her friends disapprove.

[lulu55]

Well Ellen never came through the red carpet where everybody was taking pictures, also I think all the pictures that were taken inside was close to their seats, maybe they sat far away from each other.

We never knew what went on inside the awards during commercials, so hopefully they're still friends, she mentioned her on her monologue on Tuesday.

[Steph81]

I hope they do too... As said before they look amazing! I saw them at the Grammy's together! And for the second I saw them I was like... Oh My God... I needed to get on this site and sign up! I'm a newbie, and I'm that because they look GREAT!!!

:-D

[ellenstar]

I can't really comment on this topic as lets face it, none of us knows Portia, but if that is what Ellen wants then, it is her life and it is Ellen's happiness that concerns us all here.

I love Ellen to bits, but unfortunately I think Ellen may have made a very big mistake here, but only time will tell. There is something about Portia I can't quite put my finger one. Only my opinion I am afraid.

If its what Ellen wants, then we as her fans should support that.

[trixie12]

I've always thought Portia was a cool chick. I liked Ellen and Alex, but was not sad that she ended up with Portia. She's a beautiful girl and the two of them must be very happy to appear in public so soon and so often. Be happy for them. Alex will move on. She's an adult.

I have not been a member on this site for very long and for the most part it's a cool site, except for the bitterness over Ellen's new relationship. It seems very odd to me that everyday the subject gets brought up with such negative anymosity.

[luvnellen88]

I've always thought Portia was a cool chick. I liked Ellen and Alex, but was not sad that she ended up with Portia. She's a beautiful girl and the two of them must be very happy to appear in public so soon and so often. Be happy for them. Alex will move on. She's an adult.

I have not been a member on this site for very long and for the most part it's a cool site, except for the bitterness over Ellen's new relationship. It seems very odd to me that everyday the subject gets brought up with such negative anymosity.
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Well Hello Trixie12 welcome to our house of madness and love.
Everyone here for the most part loves El. De. to the mother plant and beyond but with that much emotion they are equally saddened by the thought of El. De. is possibly setting herself up for what might be another hugh heart ache. But have faith in the Goddess of Love and soon everyone will be back on more positive vibes. PEACEOUT

[westie_france]

I do agree with you. Let them go on with their lives... I guess that most of us have felt hurt or will feel hurt if our partner is not being accepted by others. I think that if we love someone, we should accept everything else about him/her, nobody's perfect right ?

[Ellenlover1]

I have spent a good deal of time today reading about everyones thoughts about Ellen's breakup and its made me very sad for her and for Portia . Alex and Francesca.
Being a celebrity or involved with one really sucks. Imagine your last relationship and the indecision/pain/fear/feelings you felt about it. You were maybe not certain about staying together or breaking up...you loved the person, they had become your best friend and more but you could no longer see yourself going thru life in the relationship..but you just can't leave cuz its not just hurting your friend but the world is gonna judge you, the media is gonna riducule you, the gay community is gonna blame you...and all because you are making a decision, not lightly (tho it may seem to outsiders) to do what you feel is best for you in your life. Imagine that you in the midst of struggling with all of these feelings do the horrible thing of falling for someone else. Now you are viewed as a horrible cheater, you have betrayed everyone's feelings about your relationship, how could you do that to your fans. the gay community, you are suppose to be responsible, you are not suppose to go by your feelings. To make this worse, you fall for a woman who has never ever come out, she has lived her life quietly, chased by tabloids but never sat down and told the world that she loved another woman. Imagine also that she is not what the media holds as your typical lesbian, she dresses up, she wears* Horrors* makeup. she likes that stuff and tho' she has a job and a career of her own and has since forever you know they will say she is going with you to further that career that has been going on since she was a teen, quietly like most of her life and her love. You know they will say she can't care for you, she is younger, different from what you have had in the past, she just isn't what they want to see you with, how could you like her! Painful to be told you aren't good enough to be loved just for you by the same fans who profess to adore you. They will say she is *ugly*, they will write about you both, stand in front of your home, chase you to work every morning, dying to get that first picture of you two together! They will analyze it to death in the press and on your own website, they will bemoan your betrayal of THEIR view of YOUR life and the obvious fact that you dare to think you can live and love as you wish without interference from them.
They liked you better with Alex, they want you with Alex, they demand you go back to Alex and get over this silly thing. You owe it to them.
They tell you, she can't be right for you. Afterall they know you better than you can ever know yourself. They read about you in that press that is chasing you, they watch you dance on your show, they should know.
It sucks to be a celebrity or be involved with one. It also sucks to be a friend to one and to love her and want the best for her and watch her go thru the pain of a public breakup. All of the anger directed at Ellen and Portia is so ugly and so hard for me to understand. I keep going back to my last breakup and the agony of it. I am blessed that I am a nobody and could cry alone. I wish for Ellen, Alex, Portia and Francesa that same ability to cry alone, under their covers, eating bad food and watching bad tv. I wish they all could do that and then walk out their respective doors and leave it, like I did, until I was ready to go back to it.
I know its wistful thinking on my part that they could handle their lives in private, too late for that but I do wish and maybe this could happen here please that you give them a break from the anger and judgement that you remember your last breakup, your last sudden relationship, your last someone leaving....and be kinder to all 4 women
Lisette.

Well i have to say, that what you wrote in defenatly eye opening, and gives some material to think about. I don't want to be hypocrate and try to pretend as if i myself am not interested knowing the deals of Ellens life, but nevertheless i agree that she is human like everybody else, and that her behaviour and her choices are her own right, plus that she is the one to know whats best for her and not us fans.
Btw-how close are you to Ellen?

[Ellenlover1]

i heard about all this on some radio station up here. they were talking about how portia tends to hook up with the popular celebs for her own benefit. they kept saying about how they hoped that ellen didnt make a mistake and have the relationship end up like the one with her and anne.

i hope all this crap about ellen and portia is just bull. but i guess we'll find out when those people's choice awards come around and we see ellen on the red carpet. if shes with portia, then its true.. but i highly doubt it. :?

EDIT: i also think somethings up with portia. i dont know, when i look at her, something doesnt feel right.. i just cant figure out what it is. her and ellens picture together doesnt sit well with me for some reason.

Lissete-do you know Portia personaly?


Portia has never ever *hooked up* with a celebrity. Ever. In fact quite a few of you here didn't know who she was...so she doesn't seem to be a publicity seeking type. She has been in a relationship with someone all very quietly. Oh as for that picture of Portia and Ellen, at the awards, the reason it *looks odd* is it was photoshopped. Makes it easier for the photographer, the gossip rags and the curious if it appears like they were together there.
The stations , tv and radio are just repeating and enlarging the article that was on Page 6, making it more interesting to you by embellishing. A shame so many are falling for it.
Lisette.

[luvnellen88]

Ellenlover1, Your words cut right thru me. Thank you for them. I can relate to so much of what you just wrote. You placed me in an overstuffed chair and allowed me to experience the sensation of actuallly being in the room with Ellen herself. I mean as if the words came from her, within her, how moving.****88***I can go back to a decision just like that. Not knowing to stay because I didn't want to hurt the person who I knew was still in love with me. I could no longer stand to hurt myself and knowing the the person you are with deserves to be happy so well . But not just with the false reality that the relationship is fine, no not that. The happiness of being loved equally. I also know what it is like to fall for a beautiful heart and having to keep it a secret for fear of abandonment all all those who say they love you. ***88***I have a great deal of love for Ellen. I admire her strength, her ability to laugh and allow others to be part of that. I would love to meet her and just say lets hang out sometime,you know, you and yours & me and mine. As long as she is happy then I am truly happy for her.**88** Portia you have the ability to opportunity do just that ---Girl Go For It --Make her smile. :D***88***
Oh, my bad... I guess Liz wrote the piece but all the same it still reached inside of me as if I were listening to EL. De. Thanks to Ellenlover1 for correcting me.

[Ellenlover1]

Ellenlover1, Your words cut right thru me. Thank you for them. I can relate to so much of what you just wrote. You placed me in an overstuffed chair and allowed me to experience the sensation of actuallly being in the room with Ellen herself. I mean as if the words came from her, within her, how moving.****88***I can go back to a decision just like that. Not knowing to stay because I didn't want to hurt the person who I knew was still in love with me. I could no longer stand to hurt myself and knowing the the person you are with deserves to be happy so well . But not just with the false reality that the relationship is fine, no not that. The happiness of being loved equally. I also know what it is like to fall for a beautiful heart and having to keep it a secret for fear of abandonment all all those who say they love you. ***88***I have a great deal of love for Ellen. I admire her strength, her ability to laugh and allow others to be part of that. I would love to meet her and just say lets hang out sometime,you know, you and yours & me and mine. As long as she is happy then I am truly happy for her.**88** Portia you have the ability to opportunity do just that ---Girl Go For It --Make her smile. :D

Hey luvenellen, those werent my words, i just quoted them from someone's writing on this site-her private name is Lisette-but i dont remember now her user name. What i wrote inside that quote was asking if she knew Portia personaly, and one respond above of that i responded to what Lisette wrote (you can scroll up in the site and read what i wrote if you wish).