About homosexuality...

[xela]

Hi. I'm a new membership but I want to talk you about homosexuality. I'm french, so i'm sorry for my future mystakes.

I'm 18 and I have my own opinion about that... just tell me what you think about that.

For me, I think that homosexuality don't really exist, cuz the love control any couples and it's not important to put the word "Lesbien" "Gay" or "Heterosexuals" on every couples. I think that every body "fall in love" and nobody should cares about the sex of that people. The word "love" is more important than the word "homo" or "hetero". When we fall in love with someone, we like the personnality, the caracters, the humour... or just what the person makes me feel. So I don't really care about a simply word when I just can say "Hey, I'm in love"...

Everyone who already told you "What??? YOU'RE GAY???" ... just respond : "No, i'm in love" ...

Am I right?? :?:

Have a nice day everybody!

Xela

[Marie-Pier]

Xela i love the way you think ! i feel so.. lucky.. to be with you :oops: i love you so much ! welcome darling

[xela]

Thanks sweety... luv ya too! :oops: :D

For other membership, what do you think about my last post?

[Codey]

yes, there are somebody who fall in love without the care of gender.
but i think, not everyone does so, who do are called bisexuals.
there are still gay and straight.

I think that every body "fall in love" and nobody should cares about the sex of that people.
i am not going to deny that nobody should cares about the sex of his/her lover.
but many people do care.
in the other words, maybe homosexuality and heterosexuality should not exist, but they do.

When we fall in love with someone, we like the personnality, the caracters, the humour... or just what the person makes me feel.
i think, the "right" gender is one of the reasons for loving someone to most of the people.

"i like this guy, he is funny, kind, handsome, and...
oooops... no, he is a boy, i am a lesbian, i decide not to love him"
or
"i like this gal, she is funny, kind, pretty, and...
oooops... no, she is a girl, i am straight, i decide not to love her"

they sound very strange, you have never seen someone has such a thought, rite?
actually, everyone has some thoughts like this.
these thoughts affect you quietly, even you yourself will not notice the presences of them usually.

i believe in that, we may have thought many things but we ourselves do not notice, we may have decided many things but we ourselves do not notice.
..is it what is called subconscious?


i dunno what i just have said is right or not... just to tell you what i think..



and, sorry for my poor english...
hope you guys can understand it... :wink:

[xela]

Thanks a lot Codey

[caramia]

In my opinion you can be capable of falling "in love" with both sexes without desiring a physical relationship with the same sex. What I'm saying is that I think it is possible to be in love with a friend....a different kind of love you may have with most friends, but without the sex or physical attraction. I have deeply loved some of my girlfriends...in a way had crushes on them, but never desired a physical relationship with them.
I don't know what you would call it, but I think it is the same kind of attraction of being in love, (without being physically attracted). Am I making sense? Is that possible? Who knows.

[bladesedge]

I'm gay and I'm not in love.

[rockin2evanescence]

Everyone who already told you "What??? YOU'RE GAY???" ... just respond : "No, i'm in love" ...
LoL luv that part! But then again, it only works if your in a relationship :)

[xela]

LOL... you're right rockin2evanescence :lol: But it have a big effect. Try it if you can. :wink:

[WhiteRabbit]

I'm gay, I've got green skin and I come from Venus.
I'm in love, but my parents hate me, as in their opinion, I'm an alien.
Fortunately my girlfriend's mom love me.
Some of my friends and my pets love me, too.
How can't I be optimist?
:D

[MelE]

You completly right.

Now i am in love with a girl and when i said that to my best friend she said Mel i don't care you're in love with someone that it's.

[beth1970]

Hi, here from Argentina.

Yes, you´re all right. I´ve been (and still I am) in love with my partner during 14 years. When you fall in love, it dosn´t matter the rest of the world... Sometimes it´s very useful to listen your heart...

Bye, Bety.