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portia
01-04-2005, 01:50 PM
somebody in another forum wrote:
I know the true strory well bits of it anyway.One of my best friends has a friend who had an insight to the whole situation. I feel tacky already for writing this like I'm betraying someone's trust but I know this board is respectful .
Portia and Francesca had a very happy and loving relationship.They had a commitment ceremony a year back and they even talked about adopting.They were really in love with eachother.Portia was having a rough time finding new job after Ally and the press was always on their backs talking about Portia being a lesbian.That had an impact on her career during castings so her agent gave her an advice to be hush about who she is with that meant taking off her ring when she is promoting the show and avoid any photographs with Francesca at events.But in spite of all that they remained together still very much in love and Francesca was giving her support by staing in the background.Now here when it get's interesting.Mitch Hurwitz is the creator of A.D and the Ellen show so Ellen was hanging aroung Arrested development set and Mitch was asking her to help out to promote A.D on her show so she had that Banana stand and couple of actors over.They were filming long hours so Ellen started to hang out with Portia and they got to know eachother and started hanging out outside the studio.Ellen was still very much together with Alex declaring her the love of her life and Portia was off course with Francesca who had no idea.Ellen and Portia hooked up one night(just kissed not sleep together)and Ellen was starting to fall for Portia.Off course not one of them said anything to their girlfriends.Ellen wanted to break it off with Alex and told Portia but P didn't want to leave Francesca she still had strong feelings for her and wanted to end with Ellen.So the 2 broke it off and continued with their lives.Months in Ellen broke it off with Alex.Portia countinued her relationship with Francesca like nothing happend they had a Thankgiving day party with their friends and Portia was loving and you could see that she was still madly in love with Francesca and Francesca was with her as well.Few days in december Francesca found out from her close friend about rumours going around that Portia was unfaithful(about the incident months back when she and Ellen kissed).Francesca was in utter shock to find that out and confronted Portia.Portia started crying trying to explain that it was a crazy mistake and so on.Francesca was heartbroken she loved Portia deeply and she couldn't belive Portia would do that to her.Francesca broke it off that evening and moved back to her west hollywood apartment .Portia stayed in their house but it's going to be put on sale soon.Portia tried to get back with Francesca but the whole press was reporting her and Ellen as a couple it was too much for Francesca to handle and she said to Portia that she doesn't want to be with her anymore not after what she had done.Francesca is a serious monogamist very faithfull and loyal she doesn't approve cheating.So that was the end of them.

parksy
01-04-2005, 02:02 PM
Thanks for the post portia !
There are always two sides to a story and the press has made everything out to be one hell of a shock.Portia has had some bad press about all this as well.............Along as her and Ellen are happy with each other which appears to be the case.
I have seen similar situations myself before albeit my friends are not celebs .
Nice to hear from a fellow "uk" person
How is London life these days?

:lol:

ashalove
01-04-2005, 02:03 PM
Portia-
It's pretty difficult to read into anything you write at this point given your recents posts on this site and your obvious dislike for Ellen Degeneres. Needless to say, I think you may have given yourself a bad rep...

parksy
01-04-2005, 02:04 PM
whoa ashalove

What have I missed then?

bozo
01-04-2005, 02:06 PM
Hi Portia, where did you get that?

ashalove
01-04-2005, 02:08 PM
do a search on Portia's earlier posts and you can judge for yourself

parksy
01-04-2005, 02:10 PM
have done now !!

thank you...

darcia04
01-04-2005, 02:19 PM
I'm not saying I agree with any of Portia's other posts, but I did see a few days ago that someone posted that story on afterellen.com

portia
01-05-2005, 10:12 AM
Portia-
It's pretty difficult to read into anything you write at this point given your recents posts on this site and your obvious dislike for Ellen Degeneres. Needless to say, I think you may have given yourself a bad rep...

what do you mean? you don't believe my posts? why would i lie- my whole point is that i'm not lying! i'm not trying to cause a stir here, i'm just feeding some different viewpoints and i'd like a response to them. if i was as stuck in my beliefs as some of you guys are i might as well keep them to myself!

DexterGordon
01-05-2005, 11:14 AM
I love Ellen, but this is a real bummer news flash to me.

She and Alex were perfect together... a beautiful couple and Alex took the BEST photos of Ellen EVER!

I cannot believe this has happened. I'm not very happy with Ellen right now.

Portia D.R.? YUCK

I hope she realizes she's made a mistake. Chalk this up to LUST.

I don't think Alex would take Ellen back (I wouldn't if I were her). Cheating is cheating and for what it's worth I think it's wrong.

kav120
01-05-2005, 11:37 AM
portia- im glad you are on the forum, your story about what most likely happened sounds closer to the truth than any Ive heard.

I just dont get all the reports of them living together. If portia doesnt want ellen why are the reports of them mutually dumping their long time girls?

It sounds like something happened way long ago and since they took a picture together at the VH1 thing the media uses that as a story. But who knows, maybe they met up at the awards after ellen broke it off with Alex and portia got dumped by her girl b/c of the rumour so they figured "what the hell, might as well".

Either way its gonna be interesting if they show up at all these up and coming award events. Thats the true test.

bozo
01-05-2005, 01:37 PM
portia- im glad you are on the forum, your story about what most likely happened sounds closer to the truth than any Ive heard.


I'm agree with you, thx portia for sharing this news (even if we don't share the same opinion... :wink: maybe one day we can talk about it...)

parksy
01-05-2005, 02:24 PM
Hi there
Good info Portia.Thanks for the details. It was interesting to see another point of view.
As I said previously , there are two sides to this story.
I AM a big Ellen fan and would never have a go at her decision.
Clearly this is a case of acting upon something and having to deal with the consequences. Ellen is in a position of power and every move she makes is recorded somewhere by someone. She can never win whatever she does.
Most of use are lucky as we are not celebs in Ellen's sense
Recently two friends of mine did a very similar thing and the left out partners were the last to know. Even their friends knew when socialising and turned a blind eye. It was very messy and a few friends fell by the wayside
Fran and Alex still have to go through a lot of pain .
I hope that this is all worth it Ellen!!

Monst83
01-05-2005, 04:39 PM
I think what ashalove meant is your like to create a bit of drama. Just an opinion.