could i be something more? please comment

[starboarder]

Hey people so i have a little story about a friend and myself and i need a little bit of feed back please.

I have this friend that i've become really really close with, and because i dont like staying at home and we hang out so late, i sleep over at her house alot. Soo like 3 days ago i slept over and i woke up and her leg was over mine. I didnt really think anything of it because she was asleep... So i woke up again and my arm was over her stomach and as i opened my eyes i felt her hand overlap mine as she turned her backto me and hugged my arm tight to her body... now im not exactly sure what i feel for her, but all i know is everytime her arm brushes mine i get such buttterflys... lol back to my story

So i wake up again to feel her moving and she turned tto face me (we were both on our sides) and placed her leg over mine and her arm over my stomach and placed her hand flat on my back and she had her other arm on my shoulder... now my arm was just kinda hanging over her back but hers was pressed against me, and that must of taken some thought right? i mean when your asleep your relaxed...

Soo more into the story, she has told me before and a couple of times that she would have a 3 some with 2 girls... also i found naked pictures off girls on her computer... and i told her i saw them and she told me they were from this girl she just sometimes talkes to... and after i mentioned it to her i saw that they were all delted... now she said that something happened with her computer but i figured that because i told her i didnt really see them that she hid them...

isnt this all a little weird? I just dont know... also she looks at me differently then she looks at other people... she looks right into my eyes and doesnt look away, and sometimes i'll see her just kinda looking at me... also when theres a love song on or something she'll joke around and sing it to me...

Ive never gone right out and asked she was bi or anything but im really not sure... also she might be moving away soon, andd she's been trying to convince me to go with her, i just dont know...

LADIES!!! I could really use some feedback please

[midwesta]

It could be that it is all coincidental. It happens a lot to gals and guys on campus and people look too much into things that they want. The fact that she dreamed about having a threesome could be she's a freak ( in the sense of a sexual matter),curious,gay or bi. The fact that she came out and said that is a little ehhh. If you like her, and she only wants to fool around, then there is no sense in engaging anything. People ask my opinion about guys and especially girls like you mention all the time and I am about 9/10 times right. Sounds like to me that she just wants to fool around. It is just the whole "menage à trois" thing that alarms me. Who mentions that to somebody they like? Most people who are into me try to cover that up,but that is hard to hide when at college and no matter what size the school is.

[starboarder]

see im really not sure. The reason she told me about the threesome thing was because I asked if she would ever have one. I do like her, but im really not sure what she feels. I also have no idea if she just wants to fool around. and I wasnt sure if she mentioned the threesome thing to give me like an idea that she would sleep with a girl

[midwesta]

see im really not sure. The reason she told me about the threesome thing was because I asked if she would ever have one. I do like her, but im really not sure what she feels. I also have no idea if she just wants to fool around. and I wasnt sure if she mentioned the threesome thing to give me like an idea that she would sleep with a girl


Sorry, I had plans,so I missed your post. Umm...I guess you could talk to her about it,but her deleting those pictures kind of closed that door. It seems that she does not wish to since she deleted them and said that something happened to her computer. Maybe you could say that her having those pics are no big deal if the conversation comes up again,but you should have asked her what "happened" to her computer. You don't want to seem desperate,so don't mention things unless she gives you a reason to. If she can't "bag" shortly, then she will probably move on if she was just interested in some a**. Who knows though. I just ignore people who come off like that to me,but if they are truly interested they keep at it and eventually I lose interest and it gets annoying,but that's just me. Good luck and how old are you? h.s age or college? if neither then don't answer b/c for some reason you seem to be too young to be foolin' around. lol