efil
11-26-2007, 08:54 PM
Hello lovelies... i'm new here, but i'd really appreciate some advice...
I know i'm bi, but i've only been with men, especially since it's more "socially acceptable" and many people are so narrow-minded. There are so many gorgeous and intelligent women I have had feelings for, but they were always straight or in a relationship.
Anyway, last week-end I was at the bar with friends. We had too much to drink and at the end of the night, a girl started coming on to me. I think she's extremely hot and smart, but she has a boyfriend. I didn't know she was bi, but she kept flirting in a really obvious way, whispering nasty things to my ear.
Finally, she threw herself at me and kissed me. I like that girl so much, I couldn't resist, so we kissed. At first, I thought it was a meaningless flirt, like girls do all the time. But she wouldn't stop, and I didn't want to either.
Of course people were staring and her boyfriend soon realized we were totally into each other. He actually mentionned something about a threesome, but I politely refused. Meanwhile, his girlfriend was so wasted, she kept staring at me and saying how she wanted me.
Her boyfriend had to carry her home, and I was left at the bar, thinking this was just a funny anecdote.
The next day, a lot of our friends were mad at me, including her boyfriend, who doesn't want to talk to me at all. People think I did something wrong and they treat me lot a slut, like some sort of "couples breaker".
I talked to the girl and she apologized for what she had done. She says it was her who threw herself at me. Nonetheless, people hold me responsible for it and I just don't know what to do.... am I really a bad person!?
I know i'm bi, but i've only been with men, especially since it's more "socially acceptable" and many people are so narrow-minded. There are so many gorgeous and intelligent women I have had feelings for, but they were always straight or in a relationship.
Anyway, last week-end I was at the bar with friends. We had too much to drink and at the end of the night, a girl started coming on to me. I think she's extremely hot and smart, but she has a boyfriend. I didn't know she was bi, but she kept flirting in a really obvious way, whispering nasty things to my ear.
Finally, she threw herself at me and kissed me. I like that girl so much, I couldn't resist, so we kissed. At first, I thought it was a meaningless flirt, like girls do all the time. But she wouldn't stop, and I didn't want to either.
Of course people were staring and her boyfriend soon realized we were totally into each other. He actually mentionned something about a threesome, but I politely refused. Meanwhile, his girlfriend was so wasted, she kept staring at me and saying how she wanted me.
Her boyfriend had to carry her home, and I was left at the bar, thinking this was just a funny anecdote.
The next day, a lot of our friends were mad at me, including her boyfriend, who doesn't want to talk to me at all. People think I did something wrong and they treat me lot a slut, like some sort of "couples breaker".
I talked to the girl and she apologized for what she had done. She says it was her who threw herself at me. Nonetheless, people hold me responsible for it and I just don't know what to do.... am I really a bad person!?