Sexual Toys

[amccrazgrl]

Who has what kind of toys? Where did you buy online/in public? What do you want thatt you don't have?

Ok My gf is really into the idea of me "strapping" her. I must admit it sounds hot and I'd like to try it. Anyone have experince in this?

What kind strap do you have? What kind harness? Realistic penis looking or purple dildo that doesn't look like a penis?

[DegeneresDerossi2007]

maybe we shounld chat about this in the chat room

[bgfilly]

My only concern with this thread is if the youngsters of this board come across it.

I have no problem answering the question tho. I do have experience strapping it on and really the harness and dildo is dependent on what you and your parenter are most comfortable with. I usually buy online because I have very little time to actually run into a toy store to buy anything. However, sometimes for situations like this it is best to go in and talk to a sales rep. Dont be afraid to ask questions about toys.

[AnastasiaBeavrhausen]

Yikes this is a scary thread... with young people, I agree with filly... maybe we shouldnt talk about this? Sorry just my opinion!

[petal]

Yeah, I agree with Filly & AB, this is not the right place. :eek:

[jordz_ellenlover58]

If you don't like it, don't read it.

It's not like people don't know about it.. If someone is too young to be hearing about things like this, they're probably also too young to be on a board full of strangers as well...

[vanblue2003]

If you don't like it, don't read it.

It's not like people don't know about it.. If someone is too young to be hearing about things like this, they're probably also too young to be on a board full of strangers as well...

lol i agree.

also...the title is obvious. it could easily be avoided. but, curiosity killed the cat.

besides, with cable tv and public schools, it's not like we dont know about all this stuff. i'm 19, and i've known about A LOT of things for a few years now :cool:

oh and to answer the posters question, i know of www.babeland.com

i don't use it...haha i just for some 'strange' reason know about it. i'm telling you...public schools.

[AnastasiaBeavrhausen]

An Ellen Fan Site forum talking about sex toys... I guess I just dont get it. And they know about us and some of them read the forum, I just think about that and what they would think.:confused:

[jlilest]

I'm not big on talking about this sort of thing, but the forum it was posted to exists for a reason. :astonished:

[annita]

:rolleyes: Please!!! I defer to some opinions!

[jordz_ellenlover58]

A forum can get pretty dull after a while if people aren't open to topics besides the thing the board revolves around.

Curiosity killed the cat, but it also made the kittens.

So, not everything is bad just because a few people think it is.

Somebody is asking for advice. If we can just calm down and give useful advice, the topic can be deleted after if that would make people feel better about it.

[amccrazgrl]

Man I didn't mean to cause an uproar.

To say that youngsters will read this..I can gaurentee that they will.
I know when I was under 18 and wanted to view stuff online I click YES I'm over the age as I'm sure LOTS of others do.

[Degrossi]

Oh this is one of the reason why I like this forum. THE SHOCK VALUE :eek:

Here you have a section titled "Sexual Questions" and when a poster post a sexual related question, you jump on them for posting it.

So I'm just confused. What is this thread used for then? Since we can't ask sexually related questions.

[bensongrrl]

And they know about us and some of them read the forum, I just think about that and what they would think.:confused:

Why? You make it sound like they might think less of us, and that makes you sound quite judgemental.:mad:

As far as what would 'they' think. i remember when Ellen did stand up involving her discussing ending up in public in a sailor hat - paddle and harness. So i imagine 'they' wouldn't be troubled by it.

Making subjects taboo in general is not a good idea, it leads to hang ups.

Personally I feel a range of toys can bring variety to your sex life and I discuss it openly with my friends.

When we got our first harness many moons ago), we actually went into the shop so I could try it on and were asking staff for advice (we're not as sexually repressed in the UK as people perceive ):D

Buying online is a good altenative, but bear in mind you're probably not going to get the best harness/dildo combo straight off and it may take trial and some trial and error. It's good fun finding our anyway!

Another area to look at is Pride. If there is one in your area they have stalls selling loads of toys and thay are more than willing to answers questions.

The key is not to feel embarrassed about it - please don't let people feel that you shouldn't be asking these questions. For me using a strap on is part of my sexuality and not something which I feel is shameful or taboo at all. It is not everyones cup of tea - but I love it and my GF does too!
;)

[DegeneresDerossi2007]

My only concern with this thread is if the youngsters of this board come across it.

I have no problem answering the question tho. I do have experience strapping it on and really the harness and dildo is dependent on what you and your parenter are most comfortable with. I usually buy online because I have very little time to actually run into a toy store to buy anything. However, sometimes for situations like this it is best to go in and talk to a sales rep. Dont be afraid to ask questions about toys.

you want the best

[edfan24]

Seeing as there is a forum specifically for "Sexual Questions", there shouldn't be a problem with having this thread. Besides, knowing this forum, this thread will die out quickly anyway.



I have gone into this stag shop in the village twice for fun with friends... and it was sort of terrifying.. I left both times with so many questions... I don't know if I could ever get anything there...