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hiddengirl
06-15-2009, 09:13 AM
Has anyone confided in a so called best friend who you had known for years and felt you could talk to them about everything and then on telling them one of the biggest secrets of your life completely shock and dissapoint you, by instead of being the open minded liberal person you thought she was turned into this omg i cant believe it person who suddenly saw me completely different. Even though I had known her 8 years and had been through some traumatic things in our lives together, helping each other along the way.I feel so let down that it makes me never want to trust anyone again.After that she pulled away from me and distanced herself after all those years! I only told her that i had feelings for women and men. I didnt fancy her or anything for her to have such a bad reaction. I find it hard to open up to anyone now.Thats why im called hiddengirl.

Humanafterall
06-15-2009, 10:18 AM
I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. Life is full of disappointments and unexplained actions and events. It's sad to learn a dear friend of yours doesn't support you like you think or hoped they would.

On the other hand I am glad you are 'here' some of us have had similar experiences in our lives.

Welcome to the site :)

hiddengirl
06-15-2009, 11:48 AM
Thanx humanafterall one of the reasons I joined this site is because I wanted to be able to feel in a community that perhaps understands me in a place where no one else can.this is the best thing I have done in a while.thanx again

Humanafterall
06-15-2009, 11:49 AM
AMEN Sista

*virtual high five*